If you think about a typical day in your office where you meet co-workers and friends, and you convince them to like you. This will allow you to get them to do what you want and your life will be much easier.
Dr. Rajprasad is a psychologist who is the author of the book ‘Psychology of Seduction‘, he believe that ‘seduction’ i.e. human attraction is the key to successful relationships.
Speaking to BBC Rail, he said: ‘When you think of seduction, you probably interpret it as sexually attracting someone, but I would say it’s actually something deeper and more mysterious. It is what the secret of success in life is hidden.
Tempest Rose is an artist. She says that an artist or performer knows how to attract the audience. According to her, artists unwittingly learn ways to attract people to their performances.
“I know how to use my eyes to get the attention of people watching me or what movements of my body will make people pay attention to me.”
“And it’s all part of the story that my character is playing.”
He says that while acting on stage, she gets to know what seduction really is. “Using all these points we create a connection with our audience through the concept of power, sex and glamour.“
How does one get someone’s attention?
Dr. Rajprasad says, “First of all, it is important to know what unmet needs the person needs attention for.”
“Then this need should be fulfilled in a way that no one has done before.”
He explains that people come to him who are unhappy.
Why are they not happy? Because they are disappointed with their life and the world. The world is not giving them what they desire. As their salary is not increasing, they are not getting time to meet their friends, or they are not getting love or fame. ‘That is why people become anxious and have few desires from the world.
“They start to wonder why they are not getting what they want.”
According to Dr. Prasad, in order to make the world work according to one’s desire, one has to understand a basic point and that is that ‘to get something in the world, something has to be given.’
“The problem is that we people are always thinking about our own wants and needs, which is why we ignore the need or want of the person in front of us,” he says.
We don’t think what they want from life. What makes others move forward in life? And the most important thing is that what makes them disappointed?
Dr. Prasad says, “We talk a lot throughout the day to tell the time, but those who are experts in how to attract others know how to use that time.”
These people are now knowing what is the direction of your life? What is your desire, what is your need?
“By penetrating one’s mind one can know what is the need of a person that could not be fulfilled.”
“As an actress, I try to tell people that there is no one-size-fits-all rule for being attractive,” says Tempest Rose.
“Each of us has our own individual strengths.”
“Most people lack self-confidence and think they can’t learn to attract someone,” says Dr. Prasad.
“People think you’re either very beautiful or born with a God-given ability to attract people, otherwise it’s impossible.”
But Dr. Prasad believes that seduction techniques can be learned.
“Anyone can learn how to be more attractive to others.”
“If you learn this technique, you can be as attractive as any very beautiful person.”
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